Love, love, love
Love and attraction are weird and mysterious things – and probably has nothing to do with destiny. Of all the human emotions, love is the most popular one. Love creates and destroys it.
‘Why do we fall in love in the strangest ways?” The beauty about love is that you can never predict whom you’re going to fall in love with.
It is impossible to predict if that person has light or dark skin color, is tall or short, introverted or extroverted, a dancer or singer.
How did that fair-skinned girl, even fall for that dark guy? That tall guy for that short girl. And there are many instances when we analyzed how two people fell in love.
You never know and they never know because ‘Love plays the wildest games.’
Some absorb love slowly and others take it in a rush. Some see love as everything in life while some see love as a small part of life.
When you’re in love, you begin to think your beloved is unique. The belief is coupled with an inability to feel romantic passion for anyone else.
Do we fall in love with ‘only’ one single person?
Well, the question is quite absurd and meaningless. Because love does happen twice, thrice, and a million times if we had a life so big.
Take two people, who have fallen in love, got married and the went on their honeymoon. Do you think they will never fall in love with any other person?
They do fall in love. Get attracted. See the person whom they really want; a person other than their partner and it’s quite a life disaster. Perhaps that’s the moment of realization when you know you’ve found the wrong partner, it does happen.
And it’s hard to change that new-found love.
We break up and divorce for the strangest reasons
I often hear about people breaking up so easily. If falling in love was easy, breaking up has become easier. Within just a few months, relationship goes ‘boom’ and it’s all done and they move on.
Most impacting are the married ones. All too many break up soon as well. It’s true that we must hold on to love. We must hold on to those whom we love unless it’s toxic and is killing you.
If you definitely think a relationship is not letting you be ‘you’ then it’s time to rethink. It’s time to move on.
Moving on hurts. Break-ups hurt. Egos hurts. Broken love hurts.
Relationships are not just about falling in love and all the honeymoon phase. It is a long process, like building it stronger and stronger each day.
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