Casual sex is just bloody wicked isn’t it!
Sex with no strings attached or friends with benefits is as casual as casual sex gets. People of all ages engage in casual sex. And the rise in a culture of hooking up isn’t actually new. When norms related to dating and free love shifted, in the sixties, they never fully shifted back. Seventy-year-olds are engaging in casual encounters because that attitude is part of their culture too.
But like most addictions – it comes with a price! If the desire is there and you experience withdrawal symptoms then you are suffering from an addiction – be it alcohol, drugs or sex.
Sex addicts often feel great shame about what they’re doing. In moments of remorse, they tell themselves, “This is the last time I’m going to do it.” But then, they’re back at it. They want to quit and they try to quit, but they just can’t seem to manage it.
In today’s world of too much money all too many people seek physical satisfaction and join in the Lifestyle, a social activity that can soon escalate out of control.
Sex addicts’ behaviors go against their core values and beliefs. Because of this, sex addicts find themselves leading double lives, putting a great deal of effort into separating and compartmentalizing their sex life and their work and home lives.
Not all of the casual-sex experiences are positive. Women and younger participants are especially likely to report feelings of shame. There is an entire thread tagged “no orgasm,” which includes other occasionally disturbing and emotional tales.
The dirty little secret of casual sex today is not that we’re having it but that we’re not sharing our experiences of it in the best way.
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